Istvan Csicsery-Ronay, Jr.
The Wife's Story
Anne Dick. Search for Philip K. Dick, 1928-1982. A Memoir and
Biography of the Science Fiction Writer. Lewiston/Queenston/Lampeter: The Edwin
Mellon Press, 1995. vii+374. $99.95
The price is not a misprint. This book was never intended by its publisher for
individual readers, but for libraries. Whether Anne Dick wrote it for libraries is
doubtful--but then it's not clear what sort of reader the book was intended for.
Anne Dick, Philip K. Dick's third wife (of five), was married to Dick from 1958 until
1964. This was, arguably, Dick's most productive and creative period, during which he
wrote Confessions of A Crap Artist, Dr Bloodmoney, We Can Build You, Martian
Time-Slip, The Man in the High Castle, The Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch, The
Simulacra, The Zap Gun, Now Wait for Last Year, and Clans of the Alphane Moon.
Already the mother of two girls from a previous marriage, Anne had one child with Philip
before their divorce. They lived in Point Reyes, in Marin County, California, the setting
of many of Dick's novels from this period, in what was perhaps the most settled, bourgeois
period in Dick's life, when his ambition to be a mainstream writer was greatest. Anne Dick
was his most conventional wife and was the model for several of his female characters at
this time. Their relationship was intense and difficult.
Half of the SFPKD consists of a personal narrative of Anne's marriage to Phil.
The other half is her attempt to reconstruct what happened in Dick's life before they met
and after their divorce, from interviews with a number of Dick's associates and Dick's own
letters to her and others. Much of the information in it has appeared in Divine
Invasions: A Life of Philip K. Dick by Lawrence Sutin, who made extensive use of Anne
Dick's manuscripts before their publication.
Searching for Philip K. Dick is a difficult book to assess. It is what it says
it is: a search, an attempt by a wife to puzzle out the character of a disturbed and
dangerous husband whom she loved and admired, and who insulted and injured her gravely.
Anne is neither a writer, nor a trained biographer. Her search does not involve finding a
psychological, cultural or literary pattern in Dick's life that would explain his myriad
inconsistencies and personality-shifts. She makes no attempt to explicate the work from
the life. She wants to puzzle together the life from the work. She is not particularly
interested in Philip the artist, and the book contains little that could be considered
critical commentary. What matters is Philip the man, the husband, father, misfit,
shape-changer, madman, soulmate.
She looks for answers in details, or perhaps it's that everything she gathers becomes a
detail. SFPKD seems at times like a dumpster filled with rags and trash of
memory, collected almost automatically, as if its author had hoped that something
meaningful might show in a chance combination. As a result, more than the reconstructions
of a biographer, the book resembles the search of a computer search-engine, or the flow of
talk in psychotherapy. One damn memory after another, with little modulation, connection,
There is something almost Hitchkockian about SFPKD. At first, until I began
thinking about this review, I considered it utterly inept as biography. Anne Dick has no
ear for writing, for constructing a narrative, even for the most obvious patterns. The
intensely dramatic moments are instantly deflated by trivial recollections. There are no
depths, no insight. Banality everywhere. And yet... perhaps this is exactly the way one
should write about Phil's world. When she writes about events that affected her directly,
Anne can be moving and chilling. Her vivid recollection of their courtship ("when
even his telephone number had a kind of mystical significance"), or her bewilderment
at Phil's attempts to have her committed, stay in my memory. But these are her own
reactions, and throughout it all Phil remains obscure, a Confidence Man against his will.
For Anne, little is left in the end but double-meanings, mixed signals, contradictory
gestures and outright lies. The most intriguing questions Anne raises in the book (raised
also by Sutin, Rickman and other commentators on Dick) remain even more difficult to
answer: what was Dick's mother's character and role truly? is there a credible explanation
or pattern for Dick's actions? was he really homosexually molested as a child? how did he
transform his life into his work?
Although as a person she is clearly educated and sophisticated, the flatness of Anne
Dick's writing and the banality of her imagination in this book is fatiguing. And yet,
after a while, fascinating. For fascinating banality is a Dickian trait--and even if we do
not feel we are getting closer to some sense of what makes Philip run, we feel we are in
his world. Biographers of Philip must confront this problem of banality. Attracted to his
writing by the dizzying play with realities and psychic states, his biographers at first
find a life context that promises the same sort of rich confusion--the cold mother, the
Beats, Berkeley bohemians, drugs, Eisenhower and Nixon, Panthers and Angels, the Bay Area
utopia, sci-fi culture, street anarchy, Synanon-style rehab cults, deranged delusions,
mystical visions, women by the dozen, Hollywood, and years of reading in esoteric lore.
One could use Dick as a pretext for a whole history of postwar America. But the surprise
is how the diversity and change of Dick's California milieux in the 50 through the 70s
reaches critical mass and turns dreary and flat. Dick saw this from the outset, he was its
bard. Where we might remember the playful vertigo of Dick's science fiction, at heart it
is not only not sublime, it is anti-sublime. Dick's surprising contrasts and time shifts
are always embedded in a world of little people, unpretentious and petty--for whom, in
paraphrasing Lem, the most sublime metaphysics becomes a street-matter, where ultimate
concerns take material form and become petty ones as a consequence. This double operation
of the imagination--making the everyday the scene of metaphysical conflict, and then
making the metaphysical prosaic--is what makes Dick funny and Kafkaesque. It also makes
him creepily flat. Troubled by the banality of evil and the evil of banality at the same
time, Dick also tries to find transcendence in the dumpster, always running the risk that
it was he who threw it in there in the first place.
It may be, consequently, oddly appropriate to imagine Philip through Anne Dick's eyes.
It may be important to know that Philip always chose the old shoe for his counter in Monopoly,
that he badly wanted to own an owl, that he felt bad for the hated Nixon because Nixon had
cried when he lost the California senatorial election, that he hated Kukla, Fran and
Ollie at first, but then grew to appreciate the show. It may be important to know
which neighbors from real life Point Reyes became which characters in the novels. From
Anne Dick's perspective, Philip took all of his characters from real-life, transposing
their roles and personalities in jarring ways--but Anne attempts no insight into these
ways. On the evidence of SFPKD, everything in Philip's work was a transposition
of daily prose. Martian Time-Slip, for example, began when Philip told her he was
"going to write about the plumbers union and the Berkeley Co-op but I'm going to put
them on Mars" (84). So there may be deep truth when she later writes of The Crack
in Space, "I bet he got the idea when his muffler sprung a leak" (130).
Most of the time, however, the banality is less a matter of capturing the prose of the
life world, than of Anne's own inability to follow any detail beyond its first appearance
in the web of impressions. Anne seems so busy gathering shreds of memory that she forgoes
trying to tell a story or paint a picture.
Next, President Kennedy was shot. Phil literally fell on the floor when he
heard the news over the radio. He followed the events of the next several days closely and
was terribly emotional about the whole situation. He remained depressed all that fall.
Tumpey, Phil's beloved cat disappeared for good. Phil began muttering that the fates
were out to get him. "We'll get some kittens, Phil," I said, "some darling
Siamese kittens. Twins, a boy and a girl."
Shortly after we got home, they developed cat distemper. (118)
On one of our excursions with the girls we went to the little town of Sonoma to visit
the Buena Vista winery. Phil fell in love with the Zinfandel which Buena Vista Wineries
grew and bottled, a wine made of mysterious grapes of unknown origin. In the evening when
we returned he opened a bottle and sat in the living room drinking and saying "In
vino veritas" and "Whom the mills of the gods would destroy they would first
make mad." Followed up by "That's the way the cookie crumbles," and then he
talked of "hubris."
"What do you mean," I asked him apprehensively. He laughed and laughed, and
never did explain. We also brought back some duck eggs from that excursion that Phil had
found under a bush in the Sonoma town square. (36-40)
There is something eerily Phildickian about these, and the many similar, paragraphs.
Animals, the love of which appears to have been one of the strongest of Anne and Phil's
shared interests, figure much more prominently than psychological, let alone political,
events. Could Kennedy's assassination have had so little significance in the household of
the paranoid, conspiracy-suspecting Phil that it was immediately displaced by anxiety
about acquiring new cats? Could Philip's musings about madness and pride have had so
little impact on Anne that she can leave them with "[he] never did explain" and
go on to hatching found duck eggs? From one point of view, this is a plausible way of
telling the story: intense personal and political disturbances immediately displaced onto
caring for dumb animals. (And indeed, if there is a single work of Dick's that Anne's bio
helps to explicate it is Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?, written several
years after the divorce, but set in Marin County and evidently reflecting Philip's
concerns while he was living in Point Reyes.)
From another, less generous perspective, these revealing shifts are unconscious, part
of Anne Dick's character in the memoir: she does not ask painful questions. There is a
paradox here: Anne is searching for Phil, but she is only slightly less afraid of what she
will find than she apparently was when she was married to him. In an excruciatingly
revealing passage, she refers to one of the black visions Dick had that inspired many of
his stories of that time:
That spring Mamie Eisenhower, our oldest ewe, had triplets.
On Good Friday afternoon Phil played Handel's Messiah on the record player,
and worked just outside on the flower beds around the patio. He came running back in the
house and told me, "I saw a great streak of black sweeping across the sky. For a
moment there was utter nothingness dividing the sky in half." There was no doubt in
my mind that he had seen something.
It seemed to me that it would be a good thing if the house were legally in both of our
names instead of just mine. (76)
Dick did not even tell her of the vision of demonic face in the sky that inspired Palmer
Eldritch. Her revealing remark is: "If he had, I might have said to him, `You
probably ate something that didn't agree with you"' (124).
The self-portrait of Anne Dick that emerges from the bio makes it more interesting as a
document, but also less reliable. For she appears (allowing of course for the possibility
of the brilliant sophisticated use of unreliable narration) to be as clueless about her
own character and role in Philip's life as she is of Philip's in hers. Dick himself
appears in many guises, shifting suddenly from doting lover, affectionate parent,
animal-steward, generous friend, comedian, victimized son, to liar, vindictive cheat,
near-murderer, crap artist, self-concealer, paranoid, spineless mess. These are not
surprises, they have been documented in Sutin and in Rickman's first volume, in others'
memoirs. One might expect that an intimate witness of some of the most violent shifts
would have had deeper insight into the problem than the outsiders, but this is not the
case. In fact, Anne often writes like someone in shocked denial, unable to look at her own
role in the fiasco. Despite her interesting detective work regarding Philip's mother and
his post-divorce years, she seems unable to penetrate the surface of their lives together.
They had terrible fights:
I could never figure out what these fights had been about. We got along beautifully,
had an exceptional understanding. The fights seemed to have no identifiable source. One
day I threw half the dishes we owned, one crashing through the window by the front door. I
threw the penny bank. Tandy picked up the pennies as we continued to yell at each other,
Afterwards I was terribly upset.... I had an idea. To make us all feel better we all
should go to Disneyland. (67)
After an incident in which Dick almost pushes her over a cliff in their car, "I
pulled away from him, annoyed...and immediately put this incident out of my mind"
(121). The couple keeps having violent fights and separations, then coming back together,
without any motivation given.
Occasionally, Anne allows a glimmer of self-reflection about what her role might have
been in the marital disaster: "I continued to worry aloud about money. I didn't mean
to put pressure on Phil and, underneath, I always believed that we would manage. But,
looking back, I think Phil didn't perceive my faith. Perhaps I only expressed the negative
side of my thoughts and feelings verbally" (106). Perhaps, in other words, Philip
felt she was a fussbudget and a nag.
The most painful moment of self-revelation comes regarding the by-now famous remark
Phil made to Anne about being homosexually molested as a child, which forms a central
hypothesis of Gregg Rickman's bio of Dick.
...one day, before going to church, Phil said he had something very serious to tell me;
something that would explain why he couldn't function properly in life. Already I knew I
didn't want to hear whatever it is he wanted to tell me. He could function just fine. Why
did he have to go on as if he couldn't? [...] Phil told me. "When I was quite small I
was homosexually molested." Confused thoughts flashed through my mind, "it's
probably not true," or "Probably a neighbor," or "things like this
just don't happen." "Why is he telling me this? I can't do anything about this
and it's just too horrible."
But all I could say out loud was, "You should tell your psychotherapist." It
is possible that I had an opportunity to really help Phil and I blew it. I just couldn't
process this information. My poor excuse is that in the climate of those times, even
homosexuality was very exotic and unknown. Pedophilia was believed to hardly exist. I had
never heard of a case of it. I was trying to hold a middle-class marriage together and
this information was beyond my range. The timing was hardly propitious, either. His
admission went unresolved. He never told anyone else. (126-7)
Interesting in its own right, since this is the only recorded instance of Phil
mentioning the childhood abuse, Anne here reveals much about the biographer: sheltered,
rigidly bourgeois, easily shocked, defensive at the time, and now feeling deep guilt. It
is a fearful and wounded narrator.
There is little doubt that whatever part she played in the domestic catastrophe, she
was cruelly abused mentally by Phil, and yet survived the marriage far better. I suspect
that SFPKD was inspired in part by Anne's need to correct the image of her that
Phil himself created, to get ahead of the writer's power of damaging her from the grave.
Phil's description of her to his post-divorce friends was of a bitch-ogre, detestable and
formidable. Yet, judging from her own story, Anne's flaws were only fearful attachment to
bourgeois security and respectability. She appears to have given Phil a great deal of
freedom to do what he wanted, although perhaps exacting a price in resentment and
hysteria. Surely nothing in her own bio, or in the published work of others, remotely
motivates the cruelty that Phil showed her. The periods of domestic joy must have meant
much indeed to a woman who could endure abuse ranging from minor comments and symbols
(such as giving her a garbage disposal for a Christmas present), to murderous practical
joking, and intrigues. The description of Phil's attempt to have her committed to a state
mental hospital, and keep her drugged on stelazine is deeply disturbing and elicits from
her perhaps the only "philosophical" emotions in the book, raging against the
way the tranquilizers had robbed her of important memories. Indeed, Anne typically
misses--or forgoes--the opportunity to meditate on how easy it was for a husband to have
his wife committed, even when he was the delusional one. And what sort of a man
abandons a woman, whom he had invited for the evening, carless, alone on the streets of
bad neighborhood in Oakland at 2 a.m.? Anne's description of the event is cursory; but the
scene has its own power.
There are many such moments in SFPKD that help create a picture of Phil as a
bizarre, negative character. One looks for the Rashomon-effect, how Dick would have
explained things. Later biographies may supply that other side-- though we should not be
surprised if it does not appear, since Phil himself often admitted his cruelty.
Unfortunately, there is little of the hilarious entertainer or the spiritual seeker in
Anne Dick's book. Though she tries sincerely to present Dick's good side, it is the dark
side that stays with us.
SFPKD is thus interesting because it has a complex emotional agenda beneath
its surface coolness. Correcting Phil's image of her is an important part of it. And it is
telling that Anne does much to call into question Phil's image of his mother as another
bitch-ogre. Supplying excerpts from Dorothy Hudner's notebook entries about Philip as a
child, Anne makes it hard to square Dick's image of his mother with her own words. But
then that's what this bio, and Dick's work as a whole, is all about.
SFPKD is, I feel, a therapy-driven book. It is introduced by an old friend, a
psychiatrist, Dr. Benjamin Gross, MD, who writes that it "represents a healing
experience for the author." Gross and Anne Dick herself speak of two losses: the
divorce of 1964 and Dick's death in 1982. Evidently, Anne did not marry again. She
remained in sporadic contact with Philip until the end, and appears to have borne him no
ill will. The initial mystery, in Anne's mind, is what happened to Phil to transform him
from the ideal husband-lover-artist in 1958 into the madman of 1964; but Anne says she did
not follow his career after the divorce and only picked up interest in her ex after his
death. So the book has complex motivations: it is a romantic quest to piece together
whatever evidence she can to explain a decisive, rending experience in her life and also a
calculated attempt to exorcise her image as the bitch-ogre third wife of the great sf
Philip Dick lived in a therapy-universe, in which the metaphysics of gnosis and kenosis
can be translated in the wink of an eye into psychology and family dysfunction. Therapists
move in the shadows of SFPKD like demons (the evil Dr A, who took Phil's side,
even though it was manifestly wrong) and angels (the good Dr J, who gave Anne the straight
dope). This tangle of therapists was like a natural element for Phil, who seems to have
been a tangler by vocation--he knew how to lie in the language of therapy, and he seems to
have found willing victims everywhere, including (especially?) himself. A master of
reduced capabilities, Dick could make art out of his lies, but he seems to have needed
practice in life.
After collecting materials for her own story, Anne continued to interview Phil's
associates and relations about his life after their divorce. Most valuable is her attempt
to reconstruct the reputation of Dorothy, Phil's mother, with whom she sympathizes
throughout the book. Here, too, however, there is an astonishing gap between Anne's
apparent desire to set her own record straight and a biographer's task. On page 344, we
learn that Dorothy was a dianetics auditor. This is the first, and last, mention of this
fact, which cannot but have had some bearing on Dorothy's life at the time, and on Phil's
relationship with her.
In the last analysis, this is not a book for most readers, but it is impossible to say
what fans and biographers of Philip Dick might find interesting. Blessed be Interlibrary
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